In this episode, Roemer Visser and Richard Boyatzis explore what actually fuels sustained change. Boyatzis is crystal-clear: “So it turns out that vision is the driver of change, of sustainable change. Purpose. The big picture, not the micro.” Goals come later—“Now, I’m not saying goals aren’t useful, but they’re useful way down the process.” He even warns against opening meetings with numbers: “Show me a leader who opens a meeting with financials. I’ll show you an ineffective leader.”
Leadership, they agree, lives in the quality of connection. “Leadership is not about a leader. It’s about the relationships that they have with the people around them… That means that what we should be doing when we think and talk about leadership is focus on the relationships.”
Motivation follows the same logic: “The motivator of change is not a discrepancy.” What moves people is a positive emotional state, which he calls a PEA or Positive Emotional Attractor, such as possibility and “Hope. The key emotion is hope.” And to keep teams learning and creative: “It’s very hard to make sense of things unless you can periodically go into this positive emotional attractor state.”
Returning to purpose
The episode stays practical. For teams wrestling with accountability, Boyatzis recommends returning to purpose: talk with people about why the team is doing what it’s doing, and do it often in short touchpoints—think a series of 10–15 minute conversations, each kicked off by purpose. When the pressure rises, don’t push harder; prepare better. Visualization, he notes, is a powerful form of preparation.
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